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Taiwan's population is 84% Taiwanese,
2% aboriginal and 14% Chinese. The official language
is Mandarin, though in informal situations many people
communicate in Taiwanese, a spoken language derived
from the Fujian dialect of Southern China. The key religions
are Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism.
However modern Taiwan may seem to the observer, it
remains a strongly traditional region, steeped in Chinese
culture. The family reigns supreme and both religion
and superstition feature strongly in everyday life,
in more-or-less equal measure.
The Taiwanese are a refreshingly friendly people and
welcome foreigners with ease. Don't be offended by blunt
questions about your marital status or age - queries
like these are commonplace among their own conversations
and occur from curiosity, not rudeness.
The issue of "face" is one that foreigners
sometimes find hard to understand. Face is something
you can "give", by making someone feel or
look important, or "take" by anything as minor
as entering a room first or raising your voice to full-scale
humiliation. Throughout many Asian societies the concept
is very important and partly explains the constant gift-giving
and flattery you may encounter. For travellers though
it is not without its pitfalls - getting flustered or
angry at poor service will only lose face for whoever
you are dealing with, making them uncommunicative and
even less helpful. Getting directions can also be tricky
as the person you ask may fake knowledge of a place
he has never heard of to save losing face.
Do's and Don'ts
Don't lose your temper in disagreements - you'll get
far more response from a Taiwanese person by keeping
your cool and being polite.
While no-one is going to mind your clumsy ways with
chopsticks, you should never stick them upright in your
rice or food, as to Chinese eyes they resemble incense
sticks used in funerals.
Along the same lines, you shouldn't give anyone white
flowers, unless someone has died.
The number four is considered unlucky, as in Chinese
it sounds similar to the word for death - some hotels
don't even have a fourth floor. For this reason you
should avoid giving gifts that contain a set of four
of anything.
Bow and smile at people when you meet them, and show
particular respect for the older members of a family.
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