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What
is Culture Shock?
Culture
Shock is a term used to describe the anxiety
produced when a person moves to a completely
new environment. This term expresses the
lack of direction, the feeling of not knowing
what to do or how to do things in a new
environment, and not knowing what is appropriate
or inappropriate. The feeling of culture
shock can usually set in after the first
few weeks of arriving in a new country.
Culture
shock can be described as the physical and
emotional discomfort one suffers when living
in another country or place different from
his or her place of origin. Usually, the
way that we lived before is not accepted
or considered normal in the new country.
Everything is different, for example, not
speaking the language, not knowing how to
use simple everyday items such as banking
machines, telephones, or knowing how to
take a bus.
Learning
the symptoms and knowing ahead of time of
how to prepare and deal with culture shock
can make it a lot easier to overcome. The
symptoms of cultural shock can appear at
different times, below are some of the symptoms
you should look out for:
- Insomnia,
or a desire to sleep too much or too little.
- Changes
in your temperament, getting angry easily
at things that usually wouldn't bother
you, depression, feeling vulnerable, feeling
powerless.
- You
have a preoccupation with your health.
- You
start having aches, pains, stomachaches,
headaches, or allergies that you usually
didn't have.
- Anger,
irritability, resentment, and an unwillingness
to interact with other people.
- A
feeling of sadness or loneliness.
- A
feeling of being lost, overlooked, exploited
or abused.
- Identifying
only with your own culture and comparing
Taiwan negatively to your own country.
- You
wish you were home and have a strong longing
for your family and friends back in your
country.
- Unable
to solve simple problems.
- You
are trying too hard to absorb everything
in the new about the culture in Taiwan.
- Feelings
of inadequacy, lack of confidence, insecurity,
loss of identity, not fitting in, and
doubting your ability to succeed.
- You
start developing stereotypes about Taiwan's
culture and the country.
- You
may start developing different obsessions
such as; over-cleanliness.
- You
feel you canât have a normal conversation
with anyone.
- Having
a feeling of helplessness, and thinking
you need help from people in your own
country.
- Being
afraid to do new things or go to new places.
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Stages
of Culture Shock
Culture
shock also has many stages. Each one of these
stages can be ongoing or only appear at certain
times. We have listed the 5 stages of culture
shock below. For foreigners who are staying a
shorter period of time in Taiwan you may just
experience the first 2 to 3 stages of culture
shock.
Stage 1 ( honeymoon stage) - In this first
stage, the you may feel exhilarated and pleased
by all of the new things encountered. The new
things you encounter in Taiwan are new and exciting
at first, everything is wonderful. Even the most
simple things are new and interesting, taking
the bus or going to a restaurant. This exhilarating
feeling will probably at some point change to
the next phase.
Stage 2 (disillusionment stage) - Culture
shock will happen gradually, you may encounter
some difficulties or simple differences in your
daily routine. For example, communication problems
such as not being understood, food, attitude,
and customs, these things may start to irritate
you. At this stage, you may have feelings of discontent,
impatience, anger, sadness, and a feeling of incompetence.
This happens when you are trying to adapt to a
new culture that is very different from your own.
The change between your old methods and those
of Taiwan is a difficult process and takes time
to complete. During the transition period, you
may have some strong feelings of dissatisfaction
and start to compare Taiwan to your new country
in an unfavorable way.
Stage 3 (understanding stage) - The third
stage is characterized by gaining some understanding
of Taiwan's culture, country, and its' people.
You will get a new feeling of pleasure and sense
of humor may be experienced. You should start
to feel more of a certain psychological balance.
During this stage you won't feel as lost and should
begin to have a feeling of direction. At this
point you are more familiar with the environment
and have more of a feeling of wanting to belong.
Stage
4 (integration stage) - The fourth stage of
culture shock is the integration stage and is
usually experienced if you are staying for a very
long period of time in Taiwan. You will probably
realize that Taiwan has good and bad things to
offer you. This integration is period is characterized
by a strong feeling of belonging. You will start
to define yourself and begin establishing goals.
Stage 5 ( re-entry stage) - The final stage
of culture shock occurs when you return to your
home country. This stage of culture shock generally
only effects people who have been in Taiwan for
a very long period of time. You may find that
things are no longer the same in your home country.
For example, some of your newly acquired customs
are not in use in your own country.
These
stages are present at different times and you
will have your own way of reacting in each stage.
As a result some you may find some stages can
be longer and more difficult than others. There
are many factors that contribute to the duration
and effects of culture shock. For example, your
state of mental health, personality, previous
experiences, socio-economic conditions, familiarity
with the language, family, and level of education.
How
to Fight Culture Shock
Most
people who come to Taiwan have the ability to
positively deal with the difficulties of a new
environment and overcome culture shock. So if
you are thinking about going home or only spending
time with people from your own culture, don't.
You have to realize that you are not alone. Many
other foreigners in Taiwan have experienced what
you feel, talk to your friends or other teachers
at your school they can help you feel better.
We have also listed a few ways to fight the stress
produced by culture shock below:
- Develop
a hobby
- Don't
forget the good things you already have!
- Remember,
there are always resources that you can use.
- Be
patient, living in a different country is a
process of adaptation to new situations. It
is going to take time.
- Learn
to be constructive. If you encounter an unfavorable
environment, don't put yourself in that position
again.
- Be
easy on yourself.
- Don't
try too hard.
- Learn
to include a regular form of physical activity
in your routine. This will help combat the sadness
and loneliness in a constructive manner.
- Exercise,
swim, take an aerobics class, etc. Get physical
exercise and plenty of sleep.
- Relaxation
and meditation are proven to be very positive
for people who are passing through periods of
stress.
- Maintain
contact with other foreigners. This will give
you a feeling of belonging and you will reduce
your feelings of loneliness and alienation.
- Maintain
contact with the new culture. Learn Chinese.
Volunteer in community activities that allow
you to practice the Chinese that you are learning.
This will help you feel less stressed about
the language and useful at the same time.
- Allow
yourself to feel sad about the things that you
have left behind: your family, your friends,
etc.
- Try
to accept Taiwan and focus your power on getting
through the transition.
- Pay
attention to relationships with your friends
and colleagues at work. They will serve as support
for you in difficult times.
- Establish
simple goals and evaluate your progress. Make
a few small decisions and carry them out. This
will give you confidence.
- Find
ways to live with the things that don't satisfy
you 100%.
- Maintain
confidence in yourself. Follow your ambitions
and continue your plans for the future.
- If
you feel stressed or sad, look for help. Tell
friends that you are sad. Their support will
help.
- Find
people to talk to about your feelings and their
feelings.
- Make
your living arrangements pleasant, and surround
yourself with familiar photos, your favorite
music, or a memento from home.
- Donât
be afraid to cry, sing, pray or laugh to express
your feelings. Be happy and excited for this
opportunity, and don't expect things to be the
same as your home country.
Foreigners who follow this advice cope well with
culture shock. When you survive culture shock,
you will find that you have a fresh outlook on
your own culture and its roots, and will gain
new ways of understanding yourself.
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